Years ago, a Massachusetts rabbi shared that their clergy team rarely heard about domestic abuse or sexual violence from congregants. At first, they assumed it wasn’t an issue. But when this rabbi began speaking publicly about the topic, several congregants came forward with their own stories. These are conversations that might never have happened without that initial step.
One of the most effective ways to interrupt and prevent domestic abuse in the Jewish community is to talk about it openly in Jewish spaces.
Remarks from the bimah, a paragraph in a newsletter, a classroom discussion, or a social media post can open the door. Shining a light on domestic abuse can signal to people who are being harmed—physically, emotionally, financially, or spiritually—that they will be believed, supported, and connected to help if they choose.
For more than a decade, JF&CS Journey to Safety, together with Safe Havens Interfaith Partnership Against Domestic Violence and Elder Abuse, has led the Many Voices, One Message Campaign. Each year, clergy affirm, "We join together in saying we will not tolerate domestic abuse in the Jewish community."
This year, the campaign reached a record high of 178 rabbis and cantors signing on, representing a broad and diverse spectrum of Jewish belief and practice—from synagogues and schools to organizations, an overnight camp, the Boston Bet Din, and the Chaplain of the City of Boston. With just one sentence, this initiative offers a powerful message of support to people who may feel isolated, even while participating in Jewish life.
We are deeply grateful to all the rabbis and cantors who signed on. Now, we invite everyone connected to Jewish life in Massachusetts to circulate the Many Voices initiative within your communities and on social media. Together, we can bring light to people who are being mistreated by a current or former intimate partner, carrying the message that support is available.
Especially at this darkest and coldest time of year, no one should feel alone. Please help us bring light to dark places and create opportunities for meaningful awareness-raising conversations in your community.
To learn more about awareness programs or confidential support services, contact JF&CS Journey to Safety at (781) 693-1213. Free and confidential services are available in English and Russian.
